
From the beginning, women were always struggling to gain admiration, status and rights in their society. According to the Oxford dictionary:"Feminism is the idea of equality of the sexes, giving an equality of rights and position in society, it is based on social, political and economical equality for women." The movie Monalisa Smile is important to begin a discover and analyses on feminism since the 50's to our days. Another significant fact of the matter is Betty Friedan. She was one of the most influential women in the history of the feminist movement and her ideas were revolutionary for that epoch.
Set in 1953, the movie Mona Lisa Smile tells the story of Katherine Watson (Julia Roberts), a young art history professor in an all-female campus with a prestigious reputation for academic excellence. She broke taboos, because tradition told women they would be wives and she supported her students to be more than that. Feminine women did not want things like an education, career or independence. She changed their thoughts that finding a husband and having a family was the only option and more important than other things such as a great education. Katherine Watson found the girls very intelligent, but she realized they were only attending school until they found someone to get married. The movie showed how Miss Watson encouraged the girls to go to school, she had a voice. Miss Watson found that having an open mind about the ways of society isn't the way a lot of people thought. The school administration thought that the only way to teach was to follow the books rigorously. Her best student, played by Julia Stiles, has been accepted into Yale Law School, yet decides to get married and forget about a legal career. Can a brilliant woman be happy solely as a wife and mother?
"A woman has got to be able to say, and not feel guilty, who am I, and what do I want out of life?'"-The Feminist Mystique, written by Betty Friedan, who recognized that women needed an outlet for their intellect and their education. In the book, Friedan defines women's unhappiness as ‘‘the problem that has no name”. She blames the idealized image of femininity, which she calls the feminine mystique. According to Friedan, women have been encouraged to confine themselves to a very narrow definition of “true” womanhood, forsaking education and career aspirations in the process by experts who wrote books, columns and books that told women during that era that their greatest role on the planet was to be wives and mothers.
If a woman had a problem in the 1950s and 1960s, she knew that something must be wrong with her marriage. Just what was this problem that has no name? Women were felling incomplete, empty, like they didn't exist. Emptiness was inside those women and they started to realize that something was wrong. They thought the trouble was a crisis in marriage, but the problem was logic, they did not have any challenge, and in life people need something to fight for, a goal. Without an object, there is nothing to accomplish, and this was the dilemma surrounding all these ladies. The wrong part of the life that those women were having was to be accustomed with the household life, and be satisfied with that. If they get together with other housewife’s, the subject was superficial, only relationships and emotions. They had no great and new experiences to exchange. Those women had to look for achieving power, energy, influence and most of all they needed ambition, that is a good thing if the objective is to obtain success and prosperity in life.
They were frightened that too much culture would be a barrier in their life, and they would not be able to concern for the kitchen. This typical housewife life was considered the only normal path for a woman to follow. Betty Friedan's Problem That Has No Name describes what women were feed as what should be done and how to do it: Over and over Women heard in voices of tradition that they could desire no greater destiny then to glory in their own femininity. The problem was an idealized image of femininity.
The movie “his girl Friday” is an illustration of how it was for woman. They were sure that they had to decide between having an occupation and a career, or a family life. The schools instructors and gentlemen’s supported that idea, and the women had to accept that and be all right. Hildy Johnson was a very intelligent and classy woman that helped to save a criminal guy life, because she wanted an interview. She was going to settle down with a husband and turn out to be like all other women, but she had principals of morality, and she took the right conduct, following her ideals. Hildy would agree with the women that wanted something else, because she had substance. His Girl Friday marked the transition from working women for ends other than marriage to statements regarding money.
With the start of the twentieth century, more and more women carry the desire to have a career outside the home. Men frequently represented women as unworthy of a more active role in society. While today's young women have the independence and opportunities that previous generation could only dream of, some don't seem all interested in have them. Paris Hilton is an example that scares me. My generation has her as an icon and idol. Should anyone have a role model like that? Celebrity culture has entered the collective consciousness of modern society to an extent that the phenomenon of celebrity is not earned by any personal talent. For me an example of woman would be someone with at least a degree. Someone who could speak, showing intelligence and knowledge about any subject, someone with values of perseverance, integrity and devotion in life.
In brief, those entire women in 1950 and earlier 60s had no responsibility for taking those choices, it seemed right for them; they could tell that they were born just for that. They had no examples of very powerful women to follow. The typical model of the perfect family doubtless did not work for so long because the emptiness of a life for others was evident, and everybody needs to nourish the mind with information, and only having a degree or a career they would percept the essentials of living, being independent and having moments for their own as well.
It is very important for a female to educate herself and to have a career. If women keep fighting for what they want some day all people will be treated equally no matter what their gender is. Women of the past fought long and hard for equal rights and we have to appreciate that. Before, their only purpose was to procreate and serve men. We can find ourselves overwhelmed by our many responsibilities. In today's society, a woman has the opportunity to perceiver in whatever she chooses to do, whether it be a housewife or the CEO of a major corporation. The impact of feminism on today's society is amazing, because more women are working outside the home than ever before. Women have more opportunities to go to college, and to better jobs than any other time in history. Today I see a large proportion of women in many countries that are as well qualified as any man. Unfortunately, today, women are still paid less than men are, even when they do similar work and have similar education, skills and experience.
Women can't retreat to a life of raising children and cooking meals just because of the society pressure. How can a lady enjoy any liberty if she lacks knowledge? Women have now emerged from laundry rooms and kitchens across the country and changed the demographics of the American workforce.
Even in some of the most male dominated industries the female’s perspectives are increasing. Women got to work for reasons that are every bit as particular as men's. Also, work provides individuals sense of dignity and self-worth.
The media has prejudices and stereotypes through its representation of women and has impact on everyone, everywhere. The magnitude of the problem varies from country to country, but the inequality between men and women is caused by stereotypes. American culture has devoted them to a mass communications lifestyle in which they base most of their well being upon. It is very unfortunate that the media influences American society to the point that it defines the "ideal woman". Society and culture are what influence a person’s view on beauty. The media has the greatest influence on western society. The more technology that is created, the more unrealistic our ideas of the "perfect" woman become.
For businesses, having women leaders isn’t about being politically correct. It’s about survival, says Joyce Gioia, co-author of How to Become an Employer of Choice. "Women will lead the corporations of the future, and if you don’t have women leaders you might not be in business in the future," she declares.
Although, females as a whole remain at a distant disadvantage in many aspects of life, they have still gone a long way from the days of the kitchen. The ideology is dominant throughout western history and what is believed as 'normal' to the society. Most women today are seeing themselves through different eyes. The women's movement started decades ago but still many women choose one or the other, family or career. We must learn from our history or we will repeat it. For women of all economic status, capacities, races, ideologies and abilities to become equal in this society they need to earn equal pay for equal work and have acceptance from the "machos" in the workplace.


